Sunday, July 3, 2011

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Saturday, July 2, 2011

So what are you looking for in a guy ?

What are you looking for in a guy to marry you ?

Financial liberty ? Love? Or just a nice simple life ?

Call me naive but in a marriage, I am just looking for a nice simple life, with a guy who can stand to look at me for 24hr a day, 7 days a week and 365 days in a year.
Who will sleep beside me, no matter how bad I would snore (lucky me, I don't (always) snore :p) . And on top of everything, who is responsible.

Love is one thing. It would be nice if I marry the guy I love. But if he will just hurt me and my child(s), I'd better go to my 2nd best. I am just looking for a guy who wants to try another chance if the love doesn't work out at the 1st try. Who never give up over the relationship easily. Who will never break his own words. And I would do the same.

He doesn't need to be rich, I just hope that he is working hard enough to go home everyday with enough food and necessity for the family. I will help him to earn money, he should not be worry. I just want him to be home everyday, after a hectic day at work. I just want him to rest at home, and let me see him, just to make sure that he is okay.

I hope the guy is handsome, but if he is not, it's okay. Handsome guy in his 20ies, will be old someday anyway.

I hope the guy is smart. But, I would choose the guy who wants to learn about what he does. Who will never stop learning about everything. Who will never think that he is smart enough.

I don't need a 'cool' guy. Who play guitar in a band. Most of them cheat anyway..
I just want him to be there when I am happy (the 1st person that I would share my happiness) and to take care of me when I am crying..

But the guy need to be able to teach me. No matter what.

Whatever kind of guy that would be.. I just want a simple happy life with him. To accompany me in my old days, and be my side when I am dying. And of course, I would give the same for him.

Why should we have a long checklist ?